Whatever does not kill you makes you stronger.
Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe examined the medical records of over 5,000 medical patients as a way to determine whether stressful events might cause illnesses. Based on their 1967 study, the two psychiatrists came up with the Holmes and Rahe stress scale is a list of 43 stressful life events that can contribute to illness (see end of article) .
Stress is usually associated as a product of problems, tensions, worries, and pressure in one's life. As generally defined in wikipedia; stress is not directly created by external events, but instead by the internal perceptions that cause an individual to have anxiety/negative emotions surrounding a situation. People experience stress, or perceive things as threatening, when they do not believe that their resources for coping with situations are enough for what the circumstances demand.
Mark D. Seery of the University at Buffalo published a paper on adversity and resilience which appears in the December issue of Current Directions in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science. Seery says, a lot of ideas that seem like common sense aren't supported by scientific evidence.
In there, he notes that while many traumatic experiences like assault, hurricanes, or bereavement can cause damage to a person psychologically, small amounts of trauma may help that person develop resilience and cope with heavier situations.
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Research have shown that extremely negative experiences are bad. Serious events like the death of a child or parent, a natural disaster, being physically attacked, experiencing sexual abuse, or being forcibly separated from family, can cause psychological problems. According to Seery and his colleagues, some research have even wrongly suggested that the best way to go through life is having nothing ever happen to you. This view is unrealistic and not even healthy for one's well-being.
In one study, they found that people who coped better with traumatic experiences are those who went through previous negative events. Another study found that people with chronic back pain were able to get around better if they had experienced some serious adversity, whereas people with either a lot of adversity or none at all were more impaired.
One possibility for this pattern is that people who have been through difficult experiences have had a chance to develop their ability to cope. "The idea is that negative life experiences can toughen people, making them better able to manage subsequent difficulties," Seery says. In addition, people who get through bad events may have tested out their social network, learning how to get help when they need it.
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With his research, Seery isn't telling parents to abuse their kids so they'll grow up to be well-adjusted adults. "Negative events have negative effects," he says. "I really look at this as being a silver lining. Just because something bad has happened to someone doesn't mean they're doomed to be damaged from that point on.", Seery says.
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Score of 300+: At risk of illness.
Score of 150-299+: Risk of illness is moderate (reduced by 30% from the above risk).
Score 150-: Only have a slight risk of illness.
Score of 300+: At risk of illness.
Score of 150-299+: Risk of illness is moderate. (reduced by || 30% from the above risk)
Score 150-: Slight risk of illness.
Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe examined the medical records of over 5,000 medical patients as a way to determine whether stressful events might cause illnesses. Based on their 1967 study, the two psychiatrists came up with the Holmes and Rahe stress scale is a list of 43 stressful life events that can contribute to illness (see end of article) .
Stress is usually associated as a product of problems, tensions, worries, and pressure in one's life. As generally defined in wikipedia; stress is not directly created by external events, but instead by the internal perceptions that cause an individual to have anxiety/negative emotions surrounding a situation. People experience stress, or perceive things as threatening, when they do not believe that their resources for coping with situations are enough for what the circumstances demand.
Mark D. Seery of the University at Buffalo published a paper on adversity and resilience which appears in the December issue of Current Directions in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science. Seery says, a lot of ideas that seem like common sense aren't supported by scientific evidence.
In there, he notes that while many traumatic experiences like assault, hurricanes, or bereavement can cause damage to a person psychologically, small amounts of trauma may help that person develop resilience and cope with heavier situations.
Video: What is stress?
Research have shown that extremely negative experiences are bad. Serious events like the death of a child or parent, a natural disaster, being physically attacked, experiencing sexual abuse, or being forcibly separated from family, can cause psychological problems. According to Seery and his colleagues, some research have even wrongly suggested that the best way to go through life is having nothing ever happen to you. This view is unrealistic and not even healthy for one's well-being.
In one study, they found that people who coped better with traumatic experiences are those who went through previous negative events. Another study found that people with chronic back pain were able to get around better if they had experienced some serious adversity, whereas people with either a lot of adversity or none at all were more impaired.
One possibility for this pattern is that people who have been through difficult experiences have had a chance to develop their ability to cope. "The idea is that negative life experiences can toughen people, making them better able to manage subsequent difficulties," Seery says. In addition, people who get through bad events may have tested out their social network, learning how to get help when they need it.
Video: Dr. Robert Sapolsky - sometimes "the right stress" can make us feel stimulated
With his research, Seery isn't telling parents to abuse their kids so they'll grow up to be well-adjusted adults. "Negative events have negative effects," he says. "I really look at this as being a silver lining. Just because something bad has happened to someone doesn't mean they're doomed to be damaged from that point on.", Seery says.
Video: Coping With Stress
The Holmes And Rahe Stress Scale
Adults
To measure stress according to the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale, the number of "Life Change Units" that apply to events in the past year of an individual's life are added and the final score will give a rough estimate of how stress affects health.Life event | Life change units |
---|---|
Death of a spouse | 100 |
Divorce | 73 |
Marital separation | 65 |
Imprisonment | 63 |
Death of a close family member | 63 |
Personal injury or illness | 53 |
Marriage | 50 |
Dismissal from work | 47 |
Marital reconciliation | 45 |
Retirement | 45 |
Change in health of family member | 44 |
Pregnancy | 40 |
Sexual difficulties | 39 |
Gain a new family member | 39 |
Business readjustment | 39 |
Change in financial state | 38 |
Death of a close friend | 37 |
Change to different line of work | 36 |
Change in frequency of arguments | 35 |
Major mortgage | 32 |
Foreclosure of mortgage or loan | 30 |
Change in responsibilities at work | 29 |
Child leaving home | 29 |
Trouble with in-laws | 29 |
Outstanding personal achievement | 28 |
Spouse starts or stops work | 26 |
Begin or end school | 26 |
Change in living conditions | 25 |
Revision of personal habits | 24 |
Trouble with boss | 23 |
Change in working hours or conditions | 20 |
Change in residence | 20 |
Change in schools | 20 |
Change in recreation | 19 |
Change in church activities | 19 |
Change in social activities | 18 |
Minor mortgage or loan | 17 |
Change in sleeping habits | 16 |
Change in number of family reunions | 15 |
Change in eating habits | 15 |
Vacation | 13 |
Christmas | 12 |
Minor violation of law | 11 |
Score of 300+: At risk of illness.
Score of 150-299+: Risk of illness is moderate (reduced by 30% from the above risk).
Score 150-: Only have a slight risk of illness.
Non-adults
A modified scale has also been developed for non-adults. Similar to the adult scale, stress points for life events in the past year are added and compared to the rough estimate of how stress affects health.Life Event | Life Change Units |
---|---|
Death of parent | 100 |
Unplanned pregnancy/abortion | 100 |
Getting married | 95 |
Divorce of parents | 90 |
Acquiring a visible deformity | 80 |
Fathering a child | 70 |
Jail sentence of parent for over one year | 70 |
Marital separation of parents | 69 |
Death of a brother or sister | 68 |
Change in acceptance by peers | 67 |
Unplanned pregnancy of sister | 64 |
Discovery of being an adopted child | 63 |
Marriage of parent to stepparent | 63 |
Death of a close friend | 63 |
Having a visible congenital deformity | 62 |
Serious illness requiring hospitalization | 58 |
Failure of a grade in school | 56 |
Not making an extracurricular activity | 55 |
Hospitalization of a parent | 55 |
Jail sentence of parent for over 30 days | 53 |
Breaking up with boyfriend or girlfriend | 53 |
Beginning to date | 51 |
Suspension from school | 50 |
Becoming involved with drugs or alcohol | 50 |
Birth of a brother or sister | 50 |
Increase in arguments between parents | 47 |
Loss of job by parent | 46 |
Outstanding personal achievement | 46 |
Change in parent's financial status | 45 |
Accepted at college of choice | 43 |
Being a senior in high school | 42 |
Hospitalization of a sibling | 41 |
Increased absence of parent from home | 38 |
Brother or sister leaving home | 37 |
Addition of third adult to family | 34 |
Becoming a full fledged member of a church | 31 |
Decrease in arguments between parents | 27 |
Decrease in arguments with parents | 26 |
Mother or father beginning work | 26 |
Score of 150-299+: Risk of illness is moderate. (reduced by || 30% from the above risk)
Score 150-: Slight risk of illness.
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